
By: Jim Taylor
Human nature
I had an interesting exposure to human nature
recently.
It started with a 1982 Jaguar XJ6 sedan. I bought it in 1998, and spent about $14,000 on
restoration.
But that wasn’t enough. Rust
started to bubble under my lovely new paintwork; the leather upholstery was
cracking and splitting; electrical gimmicks were dying…
And I knew I wouldn’t spend the
additional money the car needed, because two years ago I got seduced by a
slightly newer Jaguar.
For most of a year I advertised
the older car without success. I lowered my price progressively from $10,000 to
$3,000.
Only two people inquired. Neither bought.
I concluded that the car was
doing no one any good rusting away in my driveway.
So I offered to give it away
free to a good home.
I got deluged with calls. My
answering machine overloaded. In the first two days, I responded to over 70
calls.
I told callers – at least in
the beginning – that I would decide within two days, and would let them know.
Differing motivations
In
hindsight, the applicants fell into three groups:
Almost without exception, the
first group thanked me for calling back. They regretting not getting the car
themselves, but they were glad it had gone to someone with a proven record of
restoring cars.
The second group rarely said thanks. Most, I
suspect, wondered why I bothered calling them back if they didn’t get the car.
The third group – fortunately
few – responded with abuse. I had taken away something that they already was
theirs. I was told that my offer was a cruel hoax, that
I didn’t play fair, that I had lied…
My wife came home from a trip
in the middle of all this. The first call she answered let fly with such a
string of foul language that she refused to pick up the phone for the rest of
the day.
Typical reactions
Perhaps I should have anticipated those three responses. They’re
characteristic of humans in general.
For some, the cause, the goal,
the purpose, matters. They’re willing to make sacrifices to further that cause.
They’re the ones who make a difference.
Others see life only for what
they can get out of it. They’re not dangerous, but neither are they helpful in
building a better world.
And a few believe the world
owes them a living. They’re entitled to whatever they want. They become the
criminal element – whether professional crooks or amateur troublemakers – in
any society.
Fortunately for all of us,
they’re a small minority – if my experience in getting rid of a car is any
guide.
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