In, But Not Of, The World
Pride Sunday Sermon

A sermon by Rev. Wayne Irwin of

 Centenary United Church, Hamilton,

 Ontario, Canada

on June 18, 2006

Text: John 17:6-11

 

(Words of Jesus, praying for his disciples –

 New Revised Standard Version)

“I have made your name known

to those whom you gave me from the world.

They were yours,

and you gave them to me, and they have kept your word.

Now they know that everything you have given me is from you;

for the words that you gave to me I have given to them,

and they have received them and know in truth that I came from you;

and they have believed that you sent me.

I am asking on their behalf;

I am not asking on behalf of the world,

but on behalf of those whom you gave me,

because they are yours.

All mine are yours, and yours are mine;

and I have been glorified in them.

And now I am no longer in the world,

but they are in the world,

and I am coming to you.

Holy Father, protect them in your name that you have given me,

so that they may be one, as we are one.”

 

 

My mother – after 96 years of living –

was sitting . . . beside me . . .

on our love seat . . . in our home . . .

three years ago . . . on a Sunday afternoon.

“I conducted a wedding yesterday,” I said.

“Two men . . . they married each other.”

My mother . . . blind, but still very bright . . .

I could see her processing this information.

Said she . . .  in all innocence . . . in response:

“That sounds kind of queer!”

 

Her use of the word was not derogatory.

But historically,

the word has been used in that way,

as a pejorative, disparaging term,

meant to put down

the members of the bisexual, lesbian, gay,

and transgender community,

meant to put down

those who do not fit the societal norm.

 

But, currently, there are some GLBT folk

who are again using the word

as a way to identify themselves.

Reclaiming it

as a label that is more open, more fluid,

more all-encompassing, less rigid . . .

as a label

that allows for a broader identity.

So, although there are those today

who feel that the word ‘queer’

can never be applied in a positive way,

because if its historical use,

there are many others today

who say they believe there is great value

in repossessing the word.

But these are not straight people.

And as a straight person, myself,

I believe it is inappropriate

for me or for anyone else who is straight

to use that word

to describe someone in the GLBT community.

Because of its history of use

by those of our society who were straight,

or who were obviously homophobic.

 

 

Unless . . . we own the word for ourselves.

Then we can use it.

Unless . . . we who truly walk with Jesus

understand . . that because of that . . .

we also . . . are quite queer!

Then we can use it.

 

Consider this:

A man, flesh and blood, Jewish,

is tried and executed

in first-century Jerusalem.

He has been fingered because he is different.

Rejected because he doesn’t fit the norm.

Unwanted in society (in the religious society)

because he challenges the status quo.

He is known by the name of ‘Jesus.’

A common name of the time and culture.

But his followers

have begun to call him

something else.

“Christ,” “Anointed One,” . . . “Messiah.”

And that’s because his followers . . .

those who walk the roads with him . . .

observe that he is significantly different.

That what he teaches is revolutionary,

in religious terms.

Spiritually revolutionary.

 

That what he teaches

is a Truth and a Way

that leads to blessing, not to cursing.

And that he lives what it is he teaches.

And that he embodies what he believes.

And they consequently declare him to be

God’s Word incarnate.

 

And more amazingly,

even though

he has been put to death,

they declare that he’s still with them,

that they are still walking the roads with him,

talking with him,

and hearing him remind them

that he and they are still united

. . . in Spirit . . . and in Love . . .

and in awareness of the Truth.

 

So for them, Jesus, the Christ, is Lord,

Risen Lord.

For them, he is both human and divine.

Both fully alive

and yet also fully above and beyond this life.

 

And so the question that arises, then for us –

for us who find ourselves alive in this world,

with all of our normal or not normal

personal particulars . . .

and for us who are searching,

as all people do,

for the model, for the pattern,

for the example

for the hero, for the heroine,

for the superstar,

for the one to emulate –

the question that arises then, for us

is this:

What kind of Lord is this Jesus?

This Risen Jesus?

What kind of Example? What kind of Hero?

What kind of Model for life?

 

And the answer, I dare say

is that Jesus is a queer example!

He is extraordinary, and odd,

and different, so very different . . .

from the norm.

Jesus is an aspect of God’s initiative

who comes at God’s behest to this world

to make things better . . . and he is queer.

And for good reason.

Because only that which is queer

can actually unsettle that which is normal,

and shift it from its entrenchment.

So that’s why Jesus teaches, for example,

“Love your enemies.

Do good to those who despitefully use you.”

Because that is a queer thing to do.

Even normal Christianity

doesn’t seem to get that.

Certainly doesn’t do that.

“Bomb the ‘bejesus’ out of them.

Send them straight to hell!”

That’s the mantra of so-called

‘normal Christianity,’ it seems,

at least as it is epitomized in contemporary

North American civil religion.

 

It’s also seen

in the outrageous behaviour in history,

of some of the old leaders of Christendom–

Pope Innocent the 3rd . . . 13th century . . .

for example,

ordering the slaughter of anyone

who taught any doctrine or allowed any belief

other than what the Pope taught or allowed.

100,000 people, at that time

– men women and children, put to death,

by the established Church.

Most of them innocent of any charge.

But victim to the Pope’s infamous edict:

“Kill them all.  God will know his own!”

 

So, just as normalcy in any area of life

needs the influence of queerness

in order to understand itself

and in order to improve itself,

in order to be shocked out of its complacency,

so religious establishment needs Jesus,

and heterosexuality needs homosexuality

in order to understand itself

in order to see its error

and in order to change and improve.

 

And thus, we who are committed

to walking with Jesus,

committed to living life under the rule

of the Spirit of Jesus,

it is good for us to remember

that he was truly queer

in the eyes of the establishment.

And that being queer, therefore, ourselves,

as an Affirming faith community

is a legitimate aspect of walking with him!

 

Jesus, the crucified innocent,

the archetypal “hated Other,”

can be understood thereby

to be the quintessential ‘queer,’

to be the one who understands

that it is in the life at the margins

where the greatest learning occurs,

where the most potent teaching occurs.

 

And that the true Church, then,

the faith community alive today

that affirms everyone

in the way that Jesus did,

the people truly incarnating his Spirit

must, then also live as a community

and expect to live

on the margins of even the Church . . .

and not in its core . . .

in order to teach the Church.

 

And that’s what we are endeavoring

to understand and to live,

we who are

the Hamilton Centenary community

of the Christian Church.

We expect to be different in our ministry

from the churches around us.

And appropriately so.

Until the Great Day of Enlightenment.

 

The status quo of the Church across the world

can never be challenged,

can never be moved,

can  never even be budged,

unless the challenge,

unless the push . . arise from within

from that which is queer within,

from that which is extraordinary within,

from that which is

provocative . . . yet faithful.

 

And thus, for those of you here present,

who are lesbian, or gay,

or bisexual, or transgender,

or for those of you

who describe yourself otherwise

but know yourself to be marginalized . . .

understand

that you are the teachers

for us in the church

who are straight

for us in the church

who are identified with the norm.

 

Understand that you are our rabbis.

Our imams.

You are our ministers.

Our evangelists.

You are the ones

calling us to repentance.

The ones calling us

to turn from our evil ways.

You are the ones

calling us to renew ourselves

and to be transformed into true incarnations

of the unconditional love of God.

And to learn anew

what it really means

to walk in the Way of Jesus.

 

Remember, as our Bible reading today attests,

that Jesus prayed for his followers,

acknowledging

that they were in the world

. . . but not of it.

And so all of us

who have chosen to walk with Jesus

are consequently called to be the same –

to be a faithful presence in the world . . .

but not a representative or supporter

of the world the way it is!

 

So, the point, dear friends,

for us here in Centenary, is this –

that this community of faith

to which we belong,

and to which we invite any of you to belong,

who don’t already belong

. . . this community of faith

does not belong to the world.

 

It does not belong to the city.

It does not belong to the establishment.

It does not even belong

to those who have been its members

over the past 140 years.

Not even to The United Church of Canada.

The building does . . . but not the community!

This community of faith,

known as Centenary,

does not even belong to us.

It belongs to Jesus!

That’s our Affirming commitment.

We belong to Jesus. . .  And to no one else!

 

Centenary . . . belongs . . .

to Jesus – the quintessential queer!

 

We belong to the One who knows,

beyond anything individually

we can ever know,

what it is to be marginalized . . .

what it is to be crucified . . .

for simply being who you are.

 

And so those of us who gather here

with regularity,

on Sundays, or on other days,

on evenings,

or during the week in the tea room,

we care that the rest of you know . . .

we care that the whole

of the GLBT community

in Hamilton and across the world know

that you are not only welcome here,

and welcome to be with us online here . . .

but you are also understood here . . .

 

And you are accepted here . . .

and not only accepted here,

but affirmed here . . .

 

And not only affirmed here . . .

but loved here . . .

 

And not only loved here,

but needed here.

You are needed here!

 

We need you here.

We need all of you here.

We need your gifts.

Your ideas.

We need your teaching.

We need your encouraging.

And we need your love.

 

You have heard it said:

“Be there . . . or be square!”

Well, I say unto you:

“Be here . . . and be queer!”